Little brothers are always little

To Baby's Uncle, My Baby Brother, On His 18th Birthday

 When I was four, mom and dad told me I would have a new baby brother or sister. I really wanted a baby brother. Well, I wanted an older brother, but mom and dad said that wasn't possible. So instead I asked God every day for you.

The day came where mom went into labor and it was time. Sarah watched TV at Grandma Mason's and I sat with Grandma Mason until the phone rang. It was dad, "You have a baby brother Mary!" I was so overjoyed I could cry. Finally. A brother. Someone to wrastle and poke fun at. You were the first thing I wished for that I got.

You were so small. Dad bought Sarah and I matching dresses to wear for your homecoming. You were asleep when you came home; so peaceful, quiet, I wanted to see your eyes but instead Sarah and I sat in awe and rocked you in the cradle. You were the perfect addition to our family!

First birthday, please note Bud Light cup.

When you were three, just a few weeks away from four, you almost left us for good. Michael, my world was shattered. I woke up to play with you and you were gone, you were in the hospital, you were maybe going to die. Life without the brother I've wanted for so long? I prayed to God again. An angel came to me in my sleep that told me you were okay. I believed in you, even though you didn't remember me. I just wanted you alive and safe.

Thanks to Dr. Michael Handler, you were.

I loved learning about you. You were so funny. You loved The Lion King and Hot Wheels. You loved the song Tusk by Fleetwood Mac. You had the best imagination. You'd tell us what was happening now was already in your dream, and you'd describe to us the moment we were in. 

Together, Wherever We Go talent show performance

And I picked on you sometimes. Okay, a lot of times. Sarah and I duct taped you to the wall once. But mostly, you and Sarah fought more than you and I did. I think that's because Sarah's easier to fight with! The ladies always loved you. You were so small and cute, and bright blonde, and you had the most adorable squeeky voice.

And through it all, you've always been the best at raising my 'spirits':

You make the best goofy faces:

And if you want a good laugh from someone, you'll get it.

I love you John Michael Collins, you're one of my best friends and there is no brother I'd rather have! Here's what you can do with your newfound Age of Majority, even though in my mind you'll always be the scrawny kid who hated pants.

Legally it means that one can engage in a contract. The same or a different minimum age may be applicable to, for example, parents losingparenting rights and duties regarding the person concerned, parents losing financial responsibility, marriage, voting, having a job, serving in the military, buying/possessing firearms (if legal at all), driving, traveling abroad, involvement with alcoholic beverages (if legal at all),smoking, sex, gambling (both lottery and casino) being a prostitute or a client of a prostitute (if legal at all), being a model or actor inpornography, etc. Admission of a young person to a place may be restricted because of danger for that person, concern that the place may lead the person to immoral behavior, and/or because of the risk that the young person causes damage (for example, at an exhibition of fragile items).

One can distinguish the legality of acts of a young person, and of enabling a young person to carry out that act, by selling, renting out, showing, permitting entrance, participating, etc. There may be distinction between commercially and socially enabling. Sometimes there is the requirement of supervision by a legal guardian, or just by an adult. Sometimes there is no requirement, but just a recommendation.

With regard to pornography one can distinguish:

• being allowed inside an adult establishment
• being allowed to purchase pornography
• being allowed to possess pornography
• another person being allowed to sell, rent out, or show the young person pornography, see disseminating pornography to a minor
• being a pornographic actor: rules for the young person, and for other people, regarding production, possession, etc. (see child pornography)

With regard to films with violence, etc.:

• another person being allowed to sell, rent out, or show the young person a film, a cinema being allowed to let a young person (under 18) enter 

(from Wikipedia, Adult legal definitions)

YOU'RE A ROCKSTAR

Warm yourself by the fire, son
And the morning will come soon
I'll tell you stories of a better time
In a place that we once knew

Before we packed our bags
And left all this behind us in the dust
We had a place that we could call home
And a life no one could touch

Don't hold me up now
I can stand my own ground
I don't need your help now
You won't let me down, down, down

Don't hold me up now
I can stand my own ground
I don't need your help now
You will let me down, down, down, down

We are the angry and the desperate
The hungry and the cold
We are the ones who kept quiet
And always did what we were told

But we've been sweating while you slept so calm
In the safety of your home
We've been pulling out the nails that hold up
Everything you've known

Don't hold me up now
I can stand my own ground
I don't need your help now
You will let me down, down, down

Don't hold me up now
I can stand my own ground
I don't need your help now
You will let me down, down, down

So open your eyes, child
Let's be on our way
Broken windows and ashes
Are guiding the way

Keep quiet no longer
We'll sing through the day
Of the lives that we've lost
And the lives we've reclaimed, go

Don't hold me up now
I can stand my own ground
I don't need your help now
You will let me down, down, down